A friend from high school mentioned that she’d like to hear more about my collection of vintage handbags and handkerchiefs, so this post is for her (And it’s about hankies, not handbags.)
I couldn’t tell you exactly when I started using handkerchiefs. If I had to guess, it was in my early-20s when my vintage handbag passion was really kicking into gear. I was finding that I really loved vintage accessories and I slowly started adding hankies to my collection of “stuff”. But I’m a firm believer in using things, not just letting them collect in a box hidden from sight.
Over the years, I’ve never seen handkerchiefs used by women in my age group. No, it seems that they are just not the “in” thing to use. (Or maybe it’s that most women in my age group are totting small children with snotty noses around and have decided disposable tissues are just easier!)
In fact, it dawned on me a few weeks ago when I saw a man I know using a handkerchief, that other than me, that friend, and little old ladies, I’ve only seen old redneck men use handkerchiefs in recent times. And whilst my hankies remain neatly folded, the handkerchiefs of this friend and the old rednecks always seem to be crumpled in a pocket. The hankies of little old ladies tend to be stuffed in their sleeves or through the band of their watch. (In fairness, the friend I saw using one recently is neither old nor is he a redneck.)
Anyhow, it makes me wonder a few things:
- Are there other women under the age of 60 who use handkerchiefs?
- Are the only men who use them old rednecks or men in suits?
- Am I the only person who doesn’t crumple their handkerchiefs?
- If I dropped my hankie in an ever-so-dainty way, would a gallant hero come whisk me away to a land of joyful bliss and happiness like they do in the fairy tales?
- Would a man still hand a woman his handkerchief if she was crying? And if he did and she blew her nose into it, would he want it back?
[Side note: I don’t blow my nose in my hankies. If I have a cold I carry disposable tissues for that purpose. I know, TMI, but it’s my blog and I can share what I want!]
So, I don’t know if this post really answers the request for information about my handkerchiefs, but it’s maybe a start. And if you want a bit more entertainment, you can always click on the thumbnail images below to see close-ups of some of my (clean, I promise) handkerchiefs.
And, Sharon, I promise that I’ll share more fun stories and pictures about any new vintage accessory purchases!! Yay!