Wow! Can you believe that I’m flying “home” to Scotland tomorrow? Or should I say today, since it’s past midnight in the homeland (why am I still awake!?) and morning time in Scotland.
I have to be honest and admit that today sort of snuck up on me. The past two+ years have been so filled with grief and stress and worry that even though I’ve been looking forward to my return to my beloved adopted Caledonia (that means Scotland) I haven’t quite allowed myself to believe this is happening.
I’m happy. I’m sad. I’m excited. I’m frightened. And I’m everything else in between.
I can’t help but think that my goodbyes over the past few weeks might be my final goodbyes. I can’t help but think that I don’t know what my future will hold when I arrive – and I can’t help but worry that it will be a failure. I can’t help but think about how much I will miss my Mum and Dad and my nieces and nephews and my sisters. I will miss my friends and my home country very much.
But at the same time, I can’t help but think of the joyful song my heart has always sung when I’m in Scotland. I can’t help but think of the enjoyment I will find in studying (no, really!). I can’t help but think about the joys of spending time with my new friends and my wonderful in-laws.
It’s been an agonising journey, and I know that the pain isn’t over. I have no expectations of a perfect world waiting for me. I don’t think that my move will erase the pain or make my world instantly better. But I do know that I need to do this. And I do know that my heart and soul need this to help me “get better”.
I am leaving behind a world I’ve known for my entire life and heading to the world where I feel I belong. And I’m so very ready for it!
Caledonia you’re calling me, and now I’m going home!