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Tag: widowhood

My life as Just Frances is quite intertwined with my life as a widow, so this is a well-used tag. Posts here will be related to grief, but also to the re-imagining of my life as “just” Frances.

Posted on15 August 20104 July 2021Everyday Life

Plus one

by Just Frances3 Comments on Plus one

I’ve been Just Frances + One for a couple of days. It’s scary. It’s weird. It’s scary. It’s fun. And did I mention it’s scary?…

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Posted on8 August 20103 July 2021Fitness & Exercise, Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Running commentary

by Just Frances2 Comments on Running commentary

When I run I think. Even when I’m listening to my iPod, my mind is racing through one thought after another. It jumps from here…

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Posted on7 August 20103 July 2021Everyday Life

To market, to market

by Just Frances1 Comment on To market, to market

I was looking forward to the Moscow Farmers’ Market opening last year but Paul died before we ever made it there and I couldn’t bring…

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Posted on3 August 20103 July 2021Everyday Life, Health & Wellness

A nice cuppa tea and a sit down

by Just Frances2 Comments on A nice cuppa tea and a sit down

When I got home from work today, I realised that I’ve not enjoyed a nice cuppa tea and a sit down after work since my…

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Posted on30 July 20103 July 2021Widow Life

Set in stone

by Just Frances13 Comments on Set in stone

I struggled with how to start this post, or if I would even write it at all because it’s hard to know how to “announce”…

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Posted on1 July 20102 July 2021Everyday Life

Reflections of joy

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My 2010 New Year’s Resolution was to find a little bit of joy each day. I started a gallery so that I could post a…

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Posted on29 June 20102 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

When you live alone; Part 1

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When you live alone, especially after sharing your life with someone for so long, things change. Little things. Shoe storage locations are one of those…

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Posted on24 June 20102 July 2021Fitness & Exercise

I’m a runner (?)

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I’m a runner. Or at least I used to be a runner. Now I sort of fake it. But I hope that eventually, I’ll remember…

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Posted on22 June 20102 July 2021Everyday Life

Shaken, not stirred

by Just Frances2 Comments on Shaken, not stirred

My love for Martinis developed sometime in the summer of 2008. It was a drink that Paul and I spoke about trying for a long…

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Posted on16 June 20102 July 2021Widow Life

Stone crosses; Part two

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It’s been about six months since I started working with the monument company on Paul’s headstone and I’ve finally seen the first photos of the…

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Posted on13 June 20102 July 2021Widow Life

Just two tasks

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I met with my real estate agent the other day about the possibility of putting the house on the market. He gave me two tasks…

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Posted on12 June 20102 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Stuff: His, Mine, Ours

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I have a house full of stuff. Stuff I accumulated before I ever met Paul. Stuff Paul accumulated before he ever met me. Stuff we accumulated…

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Posted on10 June 20102 July 2021Widow Life

The big steps are the scariest

by Just Frances2 Comments on The big steps are the scariest

I met with my real estate agent today. He came into my home and looked around; he’d not seen it since shortly after we moved…

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Posted on8 June 20102 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Stuck

by Just Frances2 Comments on Stuck

I feel stuck some days. Frozen in this place of fear; this place with an uncertain future. I guess I thought what so many people…

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Posted on5 June 20102 July 2021Everyday Life, Widow Life

Re-learning obsessive-compulsive behaviors

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Anyone who has known me long knows that I am one of those geeky, overly-organised, slightly obsessive-compulsive, and highly meticulous people. Oh, and I have…

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Posted on3 June 20102 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

There is a difference

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Being an early adopter of Widowhood means not only learning the kinks and bugs on my own, but it also means that I have to…

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Posted on2 June 20102 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Anything but late

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“How do you refer to your husband when talking to other people?” Note: This post was originally shared on my “widowhood” blog, “Frances 3.0: Still…

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Posted on30 May 20102 July 2021Fitness & Exercise, Health & Wellness, Widow Life

Taming wild horses

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For a few months now I’ve promised myself that I would finally tame the desire to hike to the top of the Wild Horses Monument…

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Posted on21 May 20102 July 2021Health & Wellness, Widow Life

Distractions

by Just Frances2 Comments on Distractions

I don’t know if it’s better to face things head-on or to find distractions, but personally, I prefer the latter in many cases; today being…

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Posted on21 May 20102 July 2021Everyday Life, Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Mrs Ryan

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Five years ago today, I became Mrs Ryan. It was truly the happiest day of my life. This is my second wedding anniversary without Mr…

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About Just Frances

Just Frances is a personal website maintained by me, Frances Ryan. I am a quirky runner, writer, thinker, drinker, crafter, adventurer, and researcher. I am also a daughter, sister, aunty, friend, and widow. But mostly, I am just Frances. (She/Her)

I blog about my life, including my travels and adventures, my experiences with PKD and ITP, my life as a young(ish) widow, and my life in general, really. Learn more about the topics I write about here.

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