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Category: Musings & Ramblings

Posts under this category tend to be reflective and at times a form of my own “talk therapy” as the act of writing down my thoughts and feelings can sometimes help me to work through them. I try not to be political or controversial in what I write, so you won’t find many of my “world views” shared here. (But in this COVID-pandemic world, I urge my fellow humans to wear a mask, social distance, and get the blood vaccine when it’s offered to you!)

Posted on16 September 201321 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

Three first dates

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It seems that my dating life is of great interest to folks these days – just like it was before I was married. In fact, the vast…

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Posted on7 September 201316 November 2022Musings & Ramblings, Travels, Adventures & Explorations

The log lady

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On my first full day in America, I decided to give my loaner car (a pretty red Jag!) a test run. So, my baby sister and…

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Posted on6 September 201321 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings, Travels, Adventures & Explorations

Hello, America

by Just Frances2 Comments on Hello, America

I am finally back in America after more than two years in Scotland – and after two emotionally draining days of international travel. I can’t really say that I’m…

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Posted on4 September 201321 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings, Travels, Adventures & Explorations

Goodbye, Scotland

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I’m on the train to England now and will be flying home to America tomorrow morning. It’s weird because part of me feels like I…

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Posted on2 September 201321 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Travels, Adventures & Explorations

Empty fears

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My flat is now nearly empty. The only things that remain (other than the furnishings belonging to the property) are my (nearly) packed suitcases that I’m…

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Posted on1 September 201321 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

The daydream

by Just Frances2 Comments on The daydream

I daydream. I always have and I always will. I suppose that it’s harmless, though it does sometimes mean that I pin a bit of…

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Posted on31 August 201321 July 2021Culinary Arts, Musings & Ramblings, Travels, Adventures & Explorations

Food, glorious food

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I’m heading to the Homeland for a visit in a few days and I’m already salivating at the thought of it. Actually, I’ve been salivating…

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Posted on30 August 201321 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

The life of a character

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A few weeks before Paul died I began the outline of a book. I was excited about it; Paul was excited about it. He was,…

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Posted on30 August 201321 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

Roses aren’t romantic: A novel excerpt

by Just Frances4 Comments on Roses aren’t romantic: A novel excerpt

Note: This is just a small draft idea for my most recent novel attempt. It follows on from a bit that I shared in May and includes…

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Posted on29 August 201321 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

The guilt of schadenfreude

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Schadenfreude \ˈshä-dən-ˌfrȯi-də\ (noun, often capitalised) [German, from Schaden damage + Freude joy First Known Use: 1895]1: enjoyment obtained from the troubles of others1 I like to think that I am a…

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Posted on26 August 201321 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings, Travels, Adventures & Explorations

Finding rainbows through the tears

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I’m not a big fan of the rain but when the skies open up I do find myself looking – and hoping – for a rainbow. Rainbows make me…

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Posted on21 August 201321 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

The complexity of simplicity

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Note: This is a piece I’ve been working on for a couple of years (I always have a few ideas/drafts in progress) and isn’t a…

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Posted on20 August 201321 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Saving strengths

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Following up on yesterday’s post, today I am acknowledging the strengths that save me from the bitterness of my weaknesses. These are a bit more difficult…

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Posted on19 August 201321 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Taunting weakness

by Just Frances6 Comments on Taunting weakness

My weaknesses taunt me. They prevent me from truly loving myself and they make me doubt every thread of my being. I wish I could…

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Posted on18 August 201321 July 2021Academic Life, Musings & Ramblings, Travels, Adventures & Explorations

Packing up – again!

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I am packing my home yet again and it’s filling me with a sense of dread and panic. It shouldn’t be so difficult, but it is – in part…

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Posted on17 August 201321 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Travels, Adventures & Explorations

Stepping from the train…

by Just Frances2 Comments on Stepping from the train…

I carry a notebook everywhere I go to jot down thoughts and inspirations when I’m out and about. Sometimes I immediately make use of those…

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Posted on13 August 201321 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

Random memories: Dog days of summer

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There is too much going on in my little brain just now and trying to tell you all about it will just make me sound like a madwoman teetering on…

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Posted on12 August 201321 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

When I close my eyes

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Sometimes I like to close my eyes and imagine the life I want. It’s by no means an extravagant life – it doesn’t even include winning the…

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Posted on12 August 201321 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

Holes in my head

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I was 14-years-old when I got my ears pierced. One hole per ear as an 8th-grade graduation gift from my parents. And I knew that…

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Posted on10 August 201321 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Love hesitates

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She stood staring at the ticket in her hands, her mouth trembling as she tried not to cry. As she crept further along the security…

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About Just Frances

Just Frances is a personal website maintained by me, Frances Ryan. I am a quirky runner, writer, thinker, drinker, crafter, adventurer, and researcher. I am also a daughter, sister, aunty, friend, and widow. But mostly, I am just Frances. (She/Her)

I blog about my life, including my travels and adventures, my experiences with PKD and ITP, my life as a young(ish) widow, and my life in general, really. Learn more about the topics I write about here.

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