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Tag: widowhood

My life as Just Frances is quite intertwined with my life as a widow, so this is a well-used tag. Posts here will be related to grief, but also to the re-imagining of my life as “just” Frances.

Posted on14 July 201217 July 2021Widow Life

The cruelty of random memories

by Just Frances4 Comments on The cruelty of random memories

There is something ever-so-cruel about random memories. OK, not always. In fact, most of the time random memories are happy moments. But sometimes, like today,…

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Posted on5 July 201217 July 2021Health & Wellness

Words about me

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I am participating in an online thing where a few people are getting together to chat through a moderated forum run by a grief counsellor.…

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Posted on24 June 201217 July 2021Widow Life

They’re braver

by Just Frances6 Comments on They’re braver

A friend of mine sent me a link to a fellow widow’s blog this weekend and I had a wee peek around to see what…

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Posted on22 May 201217 July 2021Widow Life

Seven years

by Just Frances8 Comments on Seven years

I started a post yesterday, but couldn’t bring myself to finish it through the tears. You see, yesterday was my 7th wedding anniversary – and the 4th…

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Posted on26 April 201217 July 2021Widow Life

Three years gone

by Just Frances3 Comments on Three years gone

It’s been three years since Paul died so suddenly; so unexpectedly. Some days I can’t believe that he’s gone. Some days I struggle with comprehending…

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Posted on24 April 201217 July 2021Widow Life

Expiry dates

by Just Frances4 Comments on Expiry dates

I’m a little bit crazy most days. Always have been; always will be. But widowhood seems to have increased my insanity. In fact, it seems…

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Posted on23 April 201217 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

The Desiderata way of life

by Just Frances4 Comments on The Desiderata way of life

It’s time to answer another of your questions so I’m going back to the first request to write about a poem that has stirred great emotions for…

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Posted on21 April 201217 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Without regret

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OK, I’m going to answer another question from when I asked what you wanted me to write about. The second question was if I believed in…

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Posted on8 April 201216 November 2022Musings & Ramblings

An Easter reflection

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Easter Sunday is rolling to a close and I’m sitting here thinking about how wonderful my life is because of my Saviour, the Lord Jesus…

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Posted on24 March 201218 October 2021Health & Wellness

I’ll get by

by Just Frances8 Comments on I’ll get by

It’s been a week since I last shared my mundane life with you here on Just Frances. And it’s been nearly that long since I…

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Posted on8 March 201216 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

My shattered ego

by Just Frances10 Comments on My shattered ego

­I’ve gone back and forth over if I would share a specific sliver of my life with you or not. And I almost chose not.…

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Posted on12 February 201215 July 2021Culinary Arts

Sunday roast

by Just Frances3 Comments on Sunday roast

Sunday roast is a pretty big thing here in the UK. So much so that even Paul – a 30+ year vegetarian – insisted that we enjoyed a big…

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Posted on26 January 201215 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Travels, Adventures & Explorations

Booking courage

by Just Frances4 Comments on Booking courage

OK, so you know how I said I was going to treat myself to a wee trip for my birthday this year? The idea really came…

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Posted on2 January 201215 July 2021Health & Wellness, Widow Life

A slow start

by Just Frances6 Comments on A slow start

It’s nearly midnight on January 2nd and I’m finally getting around to writing my first post of the year. I meant to write yesterday and I’ve…

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Posted on31 December 201114 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

Another year passes

by Just Frances1 Comment on Another year passes

As 2011 winds to an end, I find myself reflecting on the year’s joys (and sorrows). It’s funny the way we do that – the way we…

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Posted on15 December 201113 July 2021Academic Life

One down

by Just Frances7 Comments on One down

Well, today marks the end of my first semester as a postgraduate student. It’s been a crazy and hectic journey to get to this point,…

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Posted on10 December 201113 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Wants versus needs

by Just Frances2 Comments on Wants versus needs

Once again, I wanted to spend the day inside, hiding away from the world. I wanted to sit in and sulk and cry and feel…

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Posted on9 December 201113 July 2021Health & Wellness

Forced out

by Just Frances1 Comment on Forced out

This morning I realised that I haven’t been outside since Monday. I spent Tuesday and Wednesday holed up inside working on my dissertation proposal – and only…

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Posted on2 December 201113 July 2021Everyday Life

Boxed in

by Just Frances8 Comments on Boxed in

When I moved to Scotland in August, I sent a couple of large boxes by sea – hoping they’d arrive before Thanksgiving. They didn’t. But they did…

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Posted on27 November 201113 July 2021Widow Life

Fifty years ago

by Just Frances1 Comment on Fifty years ago

Fifty years ago, a great man was born. Today is a guarded celebration of that fact; guarded, because Paul’s not here to join in the…

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About Just Frances

Just Frances is a personal website maintained by me, Frances Ryan. I am a quirky runner, writer, thinker, drinker, crafter, adventurer, and researcher. I am also a daughter, sister, aunty, friend, and widow. But mostly, I am just Frances. (She/Her)

I blog about my life, including my travels and adventures, my experiences with PKD and ITP, my life as a young(ish) widow, and my life in general, really. Learn more about the topics I write about here.

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