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Tag: widowhood

My life as Just Frances is quite intertwined with my life as a widow, so this is a well-used tag. Posts here will be related to grief, but also to the re-imagining of my life as “just” Frances.

Posted on19 November 201113 July 2021Everyday Life, Widow Life

A cunning plan

by Just Frances2 Comments on A cunning plan

Sometimes, no matter how much thought goes into plans, things don’t work out. From Daedalus and Icarus’ attempt at building wings to escape from Crete…

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Posted on13 November 201113 July 2021Everyday Life, Musings & Ramblings

Social conscience

by Just Frances8 Comments on Social conscience

Social lives are interesting things – and hard to define at times. Everyone seems to have one or want one. Or they want a better one or…

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Posted on31 October 201112 July 2021Everyday Life

Sugar high

by Just Frances2 Comments on Sugar high

OK, if you’ve been paying attention, you might know that I like candy. No, that’s not true. I love candy. I mean, let’s face it:…

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Posted on26 October 201112 July 2021Everyday Life, Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Secret smiles

by Just Frances5 Comments on Secret smiles

There is something to be said about a smile. People who smile are more approachable. They seem friendlier. They seem carefree. They seem happier. For…

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Posted on8 October 201112 July 2021Everyday Life

Solo

by Just Frances6 Comments on Solo

I arrived in Scotland nearly two months ago, and am now on my own for the first time. In fact, I am on my own…

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Posted on6 October 20119 May 2022Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

When sadness comes

by Just Frances1 Comment on When sadness comes

Life is mostly good these days. It’s mostly happy and mostly bright and mostly cheerful. Mostly. Of course, the problem with “mostly” is that mostly…

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Posted on2 October 201112 July 2021Fitness & Exercise, Health & Wellness, Widow Life

Job done!

by Just Frances5 Comments on Job done!

I am now officially a marathon finisher! Can you believe it? No, neither can I. Today’s feat went much, much better than I expected. And…

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Posted on1 October 201112 July 2021Fitness & Exercise, Health & Wellness, Widow Life

Why run?

by Just Frances3 Comments on Why run?

I’m running my first – and last – ever marathon in the morning. I’m pretty excited about it, but at the same time, I’m rather dreading it. You see,…

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Posted on14 September 201112 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

Honestly, I’ll keep blogging

by Just Frances3 Comments on Honestly, I’ll keep blogging

It would seem that I’m not very good at this whole blogging thing of late, and I apologise for that. I suppose that it has…

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Posted on16 August 201111 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

The feathers

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A couple of nights before we had services for Paul in England*, a woman I know told me a story about feathers. She said when…

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Posted on11 August 201111 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Travels, Adventures & Explorations, Widow Life

Caledonia, I’m going home!

by Just Frances2 Comments on Caledonia, I’m going home!

Wow! Can you believe that I’m flying “home” to Scotland tomorrow? Or should I say today, since it’s past midnight in the homeland (why am…

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Posted on30 July 201111 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Widow dreams

by Just Frances1 Comment on Widow dreams

For more than two years now, my nights have been haunted with horrible dreams. I call them “widow dreams” and I understand from other widow(er)s…

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Posted on16 July 201111 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Travels, Adventures & Explorations

An unemployed, homeless transient

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Last summer I shared with you my rocky start in life as an illegitimate, homeless transient. Well, it would seem that I’m back to a…

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Posted on15 July 201110 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

It was a home

by Just Frances4 Comments on It was a home

Tonight is my last night in my house – the house I purchased with Paul a little over three years ago. This was our home; this was…

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Posted on7 July 201110 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

The table

by Just Frances1 Comment on The table

Three weeks before we moved into our house, I found an Art Deco table on CraigsList for $20. I emailed the link to Paul then…

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Posted on1 July 201110 July 2021Widow Life

Cleaning closets

by Just Frances7 Comments on Cleaning closets

Well, I’ve finally done it. I’ve finally cleaned out Paul’s side of the closet. It only took more than two years… I don’t know what…

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Posted on26 June 201110 July 2021Widow Life

Stuff hurts

by Just Frances2 Comments on Stuff hurts

I’m really tired of getting rid of stuff. It really hurts to part with even the most simple of items. I struggle each time I…

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Posted on20 June 201110 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

Subtracted

by Just Frances1 Comment on Subtracted

Last August I wrote a post titled Plus One, and for the months between then and now my life was thrown into this weird world…

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Posted on16 June 20119 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Seller’s blues

by Just Frances4 Comments on Seller’s blues

For two weeks now, I’ve been selling loads of stuff on CraigsList and I can’t believe how mixed my emotions are in the process. The…

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Posted on5 June 20119 July 2021Widow Life

The packing begins

by Just Frances3 Comments on The packing begins

Last weekend the world was really closing in on me. So much so that I had a bit of a breakdown at my folks’ place…

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About Just Frances

Just Frances is a personal website maintained by me, Frances Ryan. I am a quirky runner, writer, thinker, drinker, crafter, adventurer, and researcher. I am also a daughter, sister, aunty, friend, and widow. But mostly, I am just Frances. (She/Her)

I blog about my life, including my travels and adventures, my experiences with PKD and ITP, my life as a young(ish) widow, and my life in general, really. Learn more about the topics I write about here.

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