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Tag: self-reflection

Posted on18 January 201720 August 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Dangerous widows

by Just FrancesLeave a comment on Dangerous widows

In the early twenty-first century, a young woman’s choice in the West to live unmarried is widely accepted. Equally, thanks to the divorce law reforms…

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Posted on2 January 201729 July 2021Chronic Illness, Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Dating disclosures

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Since (a few failed attempts at) re-entering the dating world post-widowhood, I have learned that there are many struggles to dating in the modern era. From the drama…

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Posted on7 November 201628 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

I wobbled

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Sometimes in life, you wobble. And no matter how strong and sturdy you thought you were, you begin to sway back and forth; wobbling. That’s…

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Posted on10 October 201628 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Finding calm

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My time at Serenity Lodge is coming to an end, and I am finding that the calming serenity I found here is starting to fade away,…

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Posted on27 August 201628 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Travels, Adventures & Explorations, Widow Life

Third passport firsts

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I received my new American passport yesterday. But despite this being my third passport, it will also mark several passport firsts in my life. But…

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Posted on21 August 201628 July 2021Fitness & Exercise, Health & Wellness

Getting less thin

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I need to start this post by saying that I know I am not overweight and I don’t think that I am fat by any…

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Posted on10 July 201628 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Only the lonely

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When you live your life without a partner, it can be lonely. Even if you fill your days with friends and acquaintances, it can be…

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Posted on22 June 201628 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Representations of me

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I attended a PhD workshop the other week. It was one of those touchy-feely things where they wanted to talk about coping strategies for balancing…

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Posted on21 May 201628 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Dream day

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Eleven years ago, I entered a beautiful dream world: The dream of happily ever after with my amazing new husband. And whilst being a Mrs…

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Posted on17 February 201628 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Dilapidated beauty

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With my birthday just around the corner, I am more aware than normal that I am getting older. I am ageing; I am becoming more…

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Posted on16 February 201628 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Defining happiness

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As I (slowly) make my way through Tal Ben-Shahar’s book “Happier”, I am faced with questions of just what happiness is. I know that I want happiness;…

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Posted on21 January 201627 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Happy milestones [or not]

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I have decided to finally read “Happier” by Tal Ben-Shahar. It’s a book I acquired nearly two years ago, but I’ve never quite got around to…

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Posted on31 December 201527 July 2021Everyday Life, Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Wrapping up 2015

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With 2015 quickly coming to an end, it’s time for a bit of reflection. And as I look back at my hopes for the year, I…

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Posted on23 December 201527 July 2021Everyday Life, Musings & Ramblings

The holiday hush

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The holidays are here again, and that means I’m facing an extended period of holiday hush. “Hush” because, like most years, I will be spending Christmas…

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Posted on15 August 201527 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Balancing lonely and love

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Some days, I think about how lonely I am, and about how I want to find someone to share my life with. I think about…

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Posted on14 July 201526 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Dress like today is important

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Over the last several months, I got into the habit of wearing jeans most days. And that slowly led to jeans and a casual top.…

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Posted on3 July 201526 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Certifiably sane

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For nearly two years now, I’ve been experiencing an extreme amount of stress. Some days and weeks have been harder than others, but there hasn’t…

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Posted on10 May 201525 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Time for new routines

by Just Frances2 Comments on Time for new routines

I mentioned a while back that my life was suffering because I was unable (and in some ways, unwilling) to set a few routines for myself. So…

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Posted on3 May 201525 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Deletion therapy

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Clutter is everywhere. It’s in our closets. It’s in our kitchen cupboards. It’s in our bathroom cabinets. It’s in our desk drawers. It’s in our…

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Posted on19 April 201525 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

The difference in grief

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Eight years ago today, my dear friend Joe passed away. And next Sunday will mark the sixth anniversary of my beloved husband, Paul’s, death. And…

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Just Frances is a personal website maintained by me, Frances Ryan. I am a quirky runner, writer, thinker, drinker, crafter, adventurer, and researcher. I am also a daughter, sister, aunty, friend, and widow. But mostly, I am just Frances. (She/Her)

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