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Tag: widowhood

My life as Just Frances is quite intertwined with my life as a widow, so this is a well-used tag. Posts here will be related to grief, but also to the re-imagining of my life as “just” Frances.

Posted on1 March 20116 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

Future plans and dreams of the past

by Just Frances2 Comments on Future plans and dreams of the past

I spent an hour or so transferring my old floppy disks onto my external hard drive today and was very pleased with myself for managing…

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Posted on25 February 20116 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Emotional screens

by Just Frances2 Comments on Emotional screens

It’s been a bit of a crazy month as I cope with a gazillion emotions swarming around my heart and soul. Then tonight, I sat…

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Posted on22 February 20116 July 2021Widow Life

With this ring

by Just Frances7 Comments on With this ring

The last thing I expected from Paul when we took a mini-break to Venice back in spring 2004 was an engagement ring. I mean, I…

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Posted on20 February 201118 August 2021Everyday Life, Fitness & Exercise

Passing the baton

by Just Frances3 Comments on Passing the baton

I think that one of the saddest things about not having children is the knowledge that there’s no one to pass on your traditions to.…

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Posted on19 February 20116 July 2021Everyday Life

Sorting swords

by Just Frances3 Comments on Sorting swords

I finally got around to sorting through some of Paul’s stuff. In this case, it was a pile of stock leftover from his eBay business.…

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Posted on19 February 20116 July 2021Everyday Life

The laughter woke me

by Just Frances1 Comment on The laughter woke me

I don’t think I’ve slept through the night since Paul died. I’ve become a very light sleeper and am woken easily by common household sounds…

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Posted on18 February 20116 July 2021Everyday Life

The making of a bad day

by Just Frances4 Comments on The making of a bad day

It’s Friday night and the start of my three-day birthday weekend. But I’m anything but happy about it. I have to admit that it’s been…

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Posted on16 February 201119 November 2022Everyday Life

100 random things

by Just Frances13 Comments on 100 random things

My friend posted a list of 100 random things her daughter wrote about herself out of boredom and I thought I’d give it a shot…

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Posted on15 February 20116 July 2021Everyday Life

A year of Just Frances

by Just Frances3 Comments on A year of Just Frances

It’s been a year since I started Just Frances. Whilst it’s certainly not my first blog, it is unique in that I’ve actually put my…

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Posted on14 February 20116 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

A valentine-less Valentine’s Day

by Just Frances2 Comments on A valentine-less Valentine’s Day

I’ve always been a bit put off with Valentine’s Day. I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that I was…

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Posted on6 February 20116 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Nine years ago

by Just Frances4 Comments on Nine years ago

Nine years ago today, my intended life plans changed. Only I didn’t know it at the time. I was living in Scotland whilst studying at…

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Posted on27 January 20115 July 2021Musings & Ramblings

Two-poem Thursday

by Just Frances2 Comments on Two-poem Thursday

When I’m feeling stressed I turn to my writing prompts. Today, that meant working on a new form poem, which led me to write a…

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Posted on26 January 20115 July 2021Health & Wellness

Just two minutes

by Just Frances6 Comments on Just two minutes

I used to be able to sit in complete silence and just be at peace with myself. I used to be able to curl up…

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Posted on25 January 20115 July 2021Health & Wellness, Musings & Ramblings

Food woes

by Just Frances11 Comments on Food woes

I’ve been noticing in recent weeks that I’m not eating enough and I need to work on that. Before Paul died my diet and exercise…

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Posted on1 January 20115 July 2021Everyday Life, Musings & Ramblings

New year hopes

by Just Frances2 Comments on New year hopes

Yay! It’s 2011! Part of me dreads entering yet another new year because it reminds me of where I thought my life would be by…

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Posted on31 December 20105 July 2021Everyday Life, Musings & Ramblings

Reflections of 2010

by Just Frances1 Comment on Reflections of 2010

As 2010 draws to a close, I find myself reflecting on the past year. And if I’m honest, I have to admit that it was…

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Posted on21 December 20105 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Everybody hurts, sometimes

by Just Frances3 Comments on Everybody hurts, sometimes

I’ve really been struggling through this holiday season – much more than last year when I was still in a bit of shock and disbelief over the…

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Posted on19 December 201015 July 2021Culinary Arts, Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

I miss dinner parties

by Just Frances4 Comments on I miss dinner parties

Shortly after we got married Paul and I started a new tradition of monthly dinner parties. Parties to which we were the only guests. It…

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Posted on13 December 20105 July 2021Musings & Ramblings, Widow Life

Water, water, everywhere

by Just Frances4 Comments on Water, water, everywhere

I had a long, partly mostly tear-filled conversation with a friend today where I went on and on about many of the fears and uncertainties…

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Posted on30 November 20105 July 2021Fitness & Exercise

I’m goin’ for it!

by Just Frances3 Comments on I’m goin’ for it!

I’m a runner. I have been since school when I ran on the cross country team. I enjoy running. Really, I do. But I never…

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About Just Frances

Just Frances is a personal website maintained by me, Frances Ryan. I am a quirky runner, writer, thinker, drinker, crafter, adventurer, and researcher. I am also a daughter, sister, aunty, friend, and widow. But mostly, I am just Frances. (She/Her)

I blog about my life, including my travels and adventures, my experiences with PKD and ITP, my life as a young(ish) widow, and my life in general, really. Learn more about the topics I write about here.

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